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A
Statement on Abuse and Family Violence from the General Conference
of Seventh-day Adventists
Seventh-day
Adventists affirm the dignity and worth of each human being and
decry all forms of physical, sexual and emotional abuse and family
violence.
We recognize
the global extent of this problem and the serious, long-term effects
upon the lives of all involved. We believe that Christians must
respond to abuse and family violence both within the church and
in the community. We take seriously reports of abuse and violence
and have highlighted these issues for discussion at this international
assembly. We believe that to remain indifferent and unresponsive
is to condone, perpetuate, and potentially extend such behavior.
We accept our
responsibility to cooperate with other professional services, to
listen and care for those suffering from abuse and family violence,
to highlight the injustices, and to speak out in defense of victims.
We will help persons in need to identify and access the range of
available professional services.
When changed
attitudes and behavior open possibilities for forgiveness and new
beginnings, we will provide a ministry of reconciliation. We will
assist families in grief over relationships that cannot be restored.
We will address the spiritual questions confronting abused persons,
seeking to understand the origins of abuse and family violence and
developing better ways of preventing the recurring cycle.
This statement
was approved and voted by the General Conference of Seventh-day
Adventists Administrative Committee (ADCOM) and was released by
the Office of the President, Robert S. Folkenberg, at the General
Conference session in Utrecht, the Netherlands, June 29-July 8,
1995.
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A
Prayer for the Abused
Good Morning,
Lord,
We bow our hearts
before you today and praise you as a God of Justice, a God of Faithfulness,
and as our Defender. While you love all of us, we know from your
Word that you have a special place in your heart for the downcast
and oppressed, and the victims of violence: the violence that takes
place on the battlefields of war, the battlefields in our streets,
in our schools, and, sadly, in our homes.
We know it is
painful for You to watch, and that You wish You could just step
down and eradicate it all. When Your children cry out, "Lord,
how long do we have to watch this?," and it appears that violence
will be victorious, You show us the cross. And Your Word to us today
is, "Wait patiently. The just shall live by faith." And
you remind us that violence will not be victorious, for You have
already won the victory.
Give us the
mind of Christ to be instruments of justice in a world of injustice,
to be instruments of peace in a world of chaos, to be instruments
of godly action in a world where it is so easy to stand idly by
and allow violence to reign in the lives of those around us. And
also show us how to be instruments of comfort to those who are hurting
and bleeding physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
You have given
us the promise in Revelation that we cling to-that one day there
will be no more tears, no more crying, no more pain. And we thank
You for that in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer given
by Bonita Shields, Assistant Editor, Adventist Review, at the
National Day of Prayer Breakfast at the General Conference on
May 2, 2002.
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DIVISION
HIGHLIGHTS : North American Division
The North American
Division consists of 4,892 churches with a membership of 941,887.
There are nine unions and 58 conferences. Mary Maxson is the Women's
Ministries Director for this division and works with a team of dedicated
and Spirit-led union, conference and church directors. During the
year 2001 some 337 retreats were held with 102,429 women attending.
Of this 7,189 were non-SDA women.
In the area
of evangelism their main emphasis is Heart Call, a reclamation ministry
using gift subscriptions to "Women of Spirit" magazine.
This year Nicolle Brisee, WM Director for Southeastern Union Conference,
will hold 30 prayer vigils and revivals in 30 churches at the same
time.
There are a
number of outreach programs that the women are involved with. Take
Heart Retreats are becoming more and more popular and minister to
those who have suffered abuse in any form. Burden Bear is another
outreach ministry where the women take a stuffed bear with a poem
attached and gives it to someone who is hurting, whether an adult
or child.
This year Leadership
Training is being emphasized. NAD has developed a training program
called "The Passionate Leader" that will be taken to all
the unions. It will cover topics such as mentoring, discipling and
writing skills.
Plans for the
future include increased involvement of young women in WM, education
of church administrators and pastors of WM as a vision-driven and
ministry based ministry, creating more Spanish resources, and reaching
out to professional women.
Please visit
their website at www.nadwm.org and
keep these courageous women in leadership in prayer.
Focus on
Division News
South
American Division - Evangelism
Through Literacy Project
The Paraná
South Conference in Brazil has developed a successful program focusing
on literacy and evangelism. Many volunteers are involved and the
church has been supporting all the needs. Many souls to Jesus are
fruits of this program.
Hug
Project
The Paraná
North Conference in Brazil has also begun a new out- reach ministry.
The Hug Project is basically friendship and brings back to the church
friends who are not in church anymore. Maria Quadrado, WM director,
and the WM ladies have been instruments in bringing them back through
Adopting, Seeking, Reintegrating,
someone to Jesus
Teen's
Friend Project
In the South
Brazilian Union, Meibel Guedes, WM director, is developing a project
for teens, supporting and orientating the teens on how to behave
with the opposite sex, parents and friends. The groups meet once
a week or monthly.
Southern
Asia-Pacific Division - Village Health Evangelism
Women's Ministries
of Bangladesh Union Mission started a village health evangelism
program six years ago. The director trains women to go to the villages
to do health evangelism. Using flip charts they have produced, the
women teach the villagers about sanitation, how to stop diarrhea,
etc. This method of health evangelism/outreach is still very much
alive and recently was conducted in Jalchatra village (North Bangladesh)
and Chaulturi (South Bangladesh). After one week of reaping campaigns,
22 were baptized in Jalchatra and 14 in Chaulturi. We praise the
Lord for using women in reaching out to remote villages who have
not heard of the gospel.
Southern Asia-Pacific Division
African-Indian Ocean Division
- AID Plans Congress
Congress plans
are underway for the Africa Indian Ocean Division- the first part
being held in Madagascar July 29-August 4; the second in Accra in
the second week of August 2003 when the new division is formed.
Thirty WM directors
attended the AID advisory in Sahel in April, making plans for the
remainder of this year.
Earlier this
year, an evangelistic campaign was held by Priscille Metonou, WM
division director. Sixty-two were baptized and a church planted.
Africa-Indian Ocean Division
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KEEPERS
PAGE
Just for You! Abuse
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According
to the World Health Organization
- Lifetime
prevalence rate of violence against women ranges from16-50%.
- At
least one in five women suffer rape or attempted rape in
their lifetime.
- An
estimated 80% of 50 million people affected by violent conflicts,
civil wars, disasters, and displacement are women and children.
WHO
website/women's mental health
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Abuse
Prevention Emphasis Day
Resources
2002 Theme: Breaking the Silence
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the Silence Poster |
Breaking
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- Are
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- Has
Your Child Been Abused?
- Are
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Global
Report on Rape
Rape
was the most reported crime by countries in the Fifth United
Nations Survey of Crime Trends and Criminal Justice Systems...
Victims tend, more than for any other crime, not to report
their victimization to the police. But ...countries are more
likely to report statistics on rape to the United Nations
Survey of Crime Trends and Criminal Justice Systems than any
other crime.
Global
Report on Crime and Justice is a synthesis of research
and data gathered by the United Nations crime prevention and
criminal justice programme.
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We'd like
to share some e-mails we've received regarding the Abuse Prevention
Emphasis Day:
I was very happy
to read about your upcoming emphasis on abuse.... I have thought
about including pastoral abuse in an upcoming brochure or meeting.
It is a sadly common problem, even in Adventist churches and should
be addressed, especially since the majority of the women who fall
victim...are the ones who have suffered sexual or physical abuse
in their pasts.... May God bless your efforts to shed light on the
pain that abuse brings, and give hope to the women it affects.
Samantha
In the Oregon
Conference we are trying to raise awareness of these (abuse) issues
and work with programs for the abused and the abusers. So I am looking
for resources....Any information you can give me would be greatly
appreciated.
Marilyn
Renk, Director
Health Ministries, Oregon Conference, NAD
Do you have
any information on domestic violence counselors and support groups?
Rhonda
I would appreciate
information and material on working with teenagers, looking specifically
at their struggles as young women....I could also share my work
working with teens who have been abused sexually and physically
and have been involved in violent acts for survival, sharing how
we have helped them deal with such traumatic experiences and were
able to embrace reconciliation and healing.
Zandile
Nhlengetwa
KwaZulu-Natal Programme for Survivors of Violence , South Africa
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